Marriage is a covenant relationship between a man and a woman, instituted by God. Its purpose is to reflect Christ's relationship with the Church, to provide companionship, and to raise godly offspring.
Read Genesis 2:24.
Jesus exemplified servant leadership, demonstrating that true leadership is about serving others with humility and love. Matthew 20:26-28 reminds us that the greatest among us should be a servant.
Leading with love means prioritizing your wife's needs, showing her respect, and creating an environment of trust and security.
Read Colossians 3:19
Biblical discipline within a marriage is about guiding and correcting with love and grace, aiming to help each other grow spiritually and personally. Proverbs 13:24 emphasizes discipline with love in the context of children but what we are going for here is the combination of discipline and love.
Approach discipline with humility and a desire for mutual growth. Read Ephesians 4:2.
Reflect on your current understanding and readiness for a godly marriage. What areas do you feel confident in, and where do you see room for growth?
Write down specific goals for preparing for a godly marriage. For example, 'I will practice active listening in all my relationships to improve my communication skills.'
Develop a plan to achieve your goals. This might include reading books on godly relationships, seeking mentorship, and practicing new habits. Share your plan with your accountability partner.
Scripture Reading: Ephesians 5:25-28